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Names

Here are some names I commonly use(d):

  • Asherah Connor (Ashe)
    • This is my legal name in Australia from 2017, and in Estonia from 2024. If we are concluding a contract, this is the one I’ll use.
  • Talya, Talia, Lia, Lía
  • Amelia Cuss
    • This was my Estonian legal name until 2024.
  • Charlotte (Lotte)
  • Yuki, Nicole
  • Anneli
    • I used this for a short time after starting transition. It was the name I would’ve been given had I been assigned female at birth.
  • Arlen

I don’t repudiate any of these names.

I feel pretty self-conscious about how often “I” feel compelled to use different names for “myself”, but I don’t have the energy to care or understand better right now.